Here, we introduce an optically transparent and flexible metasurface designed for effective absorption within the microwave spectrum. Indium tin oxide (ITO) films with varying square resistances fabricate a metasurface ground layer and a lossy pattern layers. Polydimethylsiloxane (PDMS) with a low refractive index, high transparency, and high flexibility is chosen as the dielectric layer. The proposed structure exhibits a reflection band of less than -10 dB with a fractional bandwidth of 167% in the range of 3.0-33.8 GHz under vertical incident electromagnetic waves. The metasurface designed based on this unit allows for the attainment of a radar cross section (RCS) reduction bandwidth of 8.75-31.1 GHz with a 10 dB reduction and a fractional bandwidth of 112%. The metasurface can maintain a broadband RCS reduction over a range of 45° incidence angles. In addition, due to the flexibility of the structure, we analyzed its RCS reduction capability when non-planar by wrapping the structure around a cylinder. The integration of simulation and testing has demonstrated that the structure exhibits excellent performance in the field of electromagnetic stealth. It has potential practical applications in electromagnetic shielding windows and the windows or domes of airplanes or satellites.